11 years old. >> male's fault. >> at love things in this world are males fault. >> you're joking with that, not a good idea. >> do we take away phones or devices? >> monitor. monitor. >> monitor. limit it. you have to do what you can. it is what is happening at home too. you have to talk to them and be present and everybody has blackberry 46 iphone timeout. >> i like that. when parents do find out it is happening use it as excuse to talk to kid about sex and sexual relations. >> makes a point study talks about, make eye contact with your kids. put down the device to bring it back. >> i say it in my house 25 times a day, eyes on mom. eyes on mom. >> i will set up virtual nsa in my office. >> really? wow. all the stuff is permanent as sandra pointed out, not so much with the irs. we already talked about that. violence in iraq is growing out of control.