winning to get your point across use wisdom. family comes first. put aside the politics and go for it. >> i think it's interesting because we saw something in this political cycle that we have never seen before which are ads by family members against their family member who was running for congress. i have never seen that before. there were two different campaigns that did that that shows how things have gotten. thanksgiving is a time to prepare ourselves and make an earth to be than effort to b. steve: juan, you are a very famous democrat. your son is a very famous republican. what's it like at your thanksgiving table? >> juan: we take the advice that we have heard so far family first. this is about family. secondly, we do discuss politics. steve: yeah. >> juan: again, it's about listening. sometimes there is a sense that oh i'm going to win this debate. no, in our family i just want to hear what this