young people, look out for them. one of jaime's minders was a married middle-aged mother by the name of patty presba. >> i saw all the other young men and women there calling her mother, mom. >> and so, of course, jaime did too. >> how did she respond? >> with pure kindness and understanding. >> jaime felt he had finally found someone he could confide in about his years of abuse. >> i gave her my whole life story, from beginning to end. i've given her things that my family doesn't even know about. she made me feel like a man again. >> never felt like a man before? >> never felt like a real man before until i talked to her. >> mind you, patty was every bit of 47, years that had lumped themselves unkindly around her face and frame. but jaime was a baby-faced 21, younger than any of patty's four children.