and i had to get them to him or else. >> what did you say? >> you know, i was -- my head was spinning. i was so much in shock, i didn't say much. i listened to him. i think i nodded several times. i don't remember saying anything. >> but michiel oakes, the security, weapons, and hand-to-hand combat expert, the trainer of police s.w.a.t. teams did feel something, he said. >> for six months of 2009 i lived in a perpetual state of fear. >> too afraid even to call the police. >> i didn't have video proof. i didn't have audio proof. i didn't even have a witness. >> and so, according to michiel, he tried to appease mark stover and looked for the wedding photos. >> i just found the romantic