Get our free mobile app How often do you play the 'What If?' game, pondering decisions you made or did not make for better or worse or those of family and friends which have impacted your life in some way over the years? Tammy Nicolini, a physical education/health elementary school teacher in Eagleswood and the current Girl's Head Basketball Coach at Barnegat High School has been pondering a series of 'what if' moments not just made by her but by her family and especially her father in a story she is sharing outside family and close friends for the first time, one that begins more than 5 decades ago in Vietnam.