sounds. >> what was the first raeshg, everybody hopes it will be a perfect child and story book life. it wasn't a story book life. >> no, it wasn't. i became a single mom was max was just 18 months old. so on the heels of divorce, max was diagnosed with autism. no, this has not the life i had pictured. i thought i would have more kids and just thought everything was going to go along perfectly and it was a pretty dramatic shift. >> chuck, this was news, i'm sure not only tough with emily, but tough for you and your wife patty when you found out that max was an autistic child. what kind of reaction did you have and what did you even know about autism at that point? >> i'd heard the term and knew nothing about it at all. i was devastated because every as you well know, governor, wants the best for your children and especially for your baby girl so this was a