what the brothers are saying correspondents with my experience of this. joy, you talked to walter scott's brother rodney who grew emotional talking about the things that walter wanted to do with his children. listen to this. >> all the things that my brother had planned to do and wanted to do. he was definitely a family man. we talk about him buying this big van, you know, and taking his kids to disney world. and now he won't be able to do it. >> joy you can see the pain this family's going through. >> absolutely rev. you know as a pastor you know you have a family home that's teaming with relatives and aunts and uncles and children and the house is full and in talking with both the brother and mom --