Married At First Sight's James Susler shocked his 'wife' Joanne Todd during Sunday night's episode when he joked he was 'in love' with the show's sexologist Alessandra Rampolla. But on Saturday, his 'wife' or Alessandra were nowhere to be seen when the luxury car salesman enjoyed a night out in Melbourne. The 44-year-old looked agitated as he puffed on a cigarette and spoke to a mystery woman outside a bar. Is everything okay? Married At First Sight groom James Susler (pictured) looked agitated as he puffed on a cigarette outside a Melbourne bar on Saturday Stressed: James seemed to be on edge as he spoke to a mystery woman outside a bar