The Most Popular Love Language In Texas Hits You In The Wallet Enter your number to get our free mobile app It is really hard to find anyone who isn't at least somewhat familiar with the "Love Languages." A recent study set out to find out what each state's most popular love language is ahead of Valentine's Day. If you are unfamiliar with the idea of love languages, it's a pretty simple concept. The idea is that we all experience love in different ways. The main love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, receiving gifts, and physical touch.