are quite acceptable. we've normalised a lot of behaviours and that's one of the things that women in this country are now really being very vocal about. it used to be that you didn't talk about it, the stuff that happens at the bus stop where, you know, somebody comes, tries to chat a young woman up. she expresses no interest and then offence is taken by the man, and then it starts turning ugly and the woman is afraid, and she's afraid because little girls in all of our societies are told from as soon as they reach puberty, "you must watch yourself. you've got to guard yourself. "you mustn't walk in streets alone. "be with your friends, don't go to the park "and don't speak to strangers." but if there is a toxic culture in which men simply refuse to accept their responsibility to change their behaviours and attitudes toward women, how do you fix that? well, you fix it in a number of different ways. and i, of course, am a lawyer, and i do believe that law has a role to play in all of this because there's something