people that exploit do not go into any situation of exploitation winging it, and it starts with building relationships, forming relationships, starting to break relationships down, like domestic abuse. it is a very manipulative way that gangs bring children into the fold, but it isn't a fold, it is a mask of exploitation. my mum met someone, a friend of a friend. he started coming to my house, and then his friend came. the first person that came, i saw him as a normal person, just a friend. they show that they like you, and then you like them. they ask you, "can my friend come?"