he saw my weapon at my side. when he saw it, he was even more upset and that's when he threatened to kill me. >> reporter: how was he going to kill you when you're the one with the gun? >> i agree. i thought it was crazy too. >> reporter: why didn't you run out the door. >> there was no other way. >>. >> reporter: what if you ran around him. >> the law states i don't have to. >> reporter: the law she talks about is the stand your ground law. she did what she thought was allowed by law. she believe shed stood her ground and fired the gun into the wall. nobody was hurt but it was enough to scare her husband rico gray and he left the howze with his two young children from a previous relationship. alexander was safe from her husband but not from the law. she was arrested her "stand your ground" rejected and found guilty by a jury. her husband rico gray agreed to do an on-camera interview to counter his wife's allegations but a few hours later he made the decision not to do the