>> oh, your son said -- >> i didn't say free pass go to the carnival cruise and the cruise is still going on -- maybe not carnival. >> yeah. >> the recipes kill more people than dexter. it's unreasonable what is happening with her food. she goes on "the today show" tomorrow. some will forgive her, some won't. >> thanks so much to both of you, we appreciate it. weigh in on the paula deen situation. i'm glad i have mark and dean sitting here, forcing them to watch this story because we take a look at the "out front out take". for decades the height of manliness and a sign of a man's untamed spirit. i did not write that. anyway, actress, rock stars flaunted it and women flooned -- definitely not at that -- maybe that one, then something happened. men started waxing and going