people in our environment in order to fit in. did you hear when you're in a cult, especially for any length of time? you're in what i call a self sealing system. this is a social system that's closed in on itself. your free will is under the will of the leader and the group. so you're only doing what you need to do to stay in the good graces of the group. ended up happening was there was the idol threats from my point of view? of fear that if you miss the boat. you may not get another chance windows. bye. pure pressure is so important in these groups, right? so you you can see you know ciro di doing it so that you, you know, you should be at least as dedicated as a roadie. so you're often comparing yourself to the people who look like they're more