older text messages, older e-mails. that stuff's never going to be admitted in court. if he's giving, you know, arm chair legal advice, who cares. i want to know, was he visiting the child free site, was he visiting the site about how long it takes a baby to die in a hot car, close in time to when this happened. then it has relevance to motive, premeditation -- >> so huge difference. and a year ago, he's got a 1-year-old baby and he's looking up how long would it take if i made a horrible mistake to destroy my life accidentally and kill my child as opposed to three weeks before this happened. >> you really have to have proximity to the time of the crime for it to be relative and probative as lawyers would say in trying the case. >> i still have to say as a mom, i don't think there's a person among us, if we were on a jury, we could really get our heads around a mom or dad deciding i think i'm going to get rid of my child by baking him slowly to death. and the toxs have come back.