here she is on facebook, showing off her engagement ring. and this one with her sister. her mother spoke to reporters earlier when there was still hope her daughter was alive >> she's supposed to be married two weeks from today. it just can't end like this. >> reporter: authorities say it appears the driver of the boat, a 35-year-old man, a friend of the couple was intoxicated. he's been charged vehicular manslaughter and vehicular assault. on the eve of a wedding. >> it's horrible. we met with the families, it's devastating, absolutely devastating. >> they went to church together, they have been friends. she did all the plans herself. >> that's something, a nightmare, i don't wish on any parent. >> unreal. april tragedy and our thoughts