is battered by the person she loves. and yet in this interaction with the cops, there doesn't seem to be any recognition of as you put it the textbook signs of potential domestic abuse. the self-blame, elsewhere in the conversation she says, well, i was cleaning up and i'm ocd and that makes him upset. as though every response he had was triggered by something she did, therefore she is the party to blame. you can tell later in the interaction, the cops kind of bought that, because the guy says, you're the aggressor, but we're not going to charge you. and so she leaves that interaction with it reaffirmed by the cops that she was the party at fault. >> you can tell how much emotional pain she was in during that interaction. also, overnight, deborah, we learned that there was a series of phone calls, of reports, to police, having to do with the laundrie home in north port,