many are still looking for their loved ones, soldiers help where they can. for larisa and andriy, it is an agonizing wait. their son has been pinned down in the hotel he owns. "we wait, we hope, we pray," they tell me. "this is the grief of all mothers of all people," larisa says. this is a tragedy. every time the phone rings, there is a scramble, anticipation that it could be their son's voice on the line. this time it is not. "excuse me, i can't talk" and riy says. these residents of a nursing home were the last to be evacuated from urpin.