how can we all cope better with this unpredictability? >> i think there needs to be much more action. child care is in crisis right now. there needs to be funding to raise pages because this is not sustainable. i do think that parents need to speak up more because i think they're forgotten. it is 'em pow iring to feel like you are heard. the sense of community is so important and offering to help how you can and getting help in return. that's the only thing that will get us through. >> if a baby or small child is sick they ultimately welcome feelings of guilt and blame, self blame. how can anyone in that situation