in clinical settings, the nhs has tried and tested guidelines on how to deal with people respectfully, and when i went in for mike scams last year i did not need to be asked whether i was pregnant, evidently night. if someone is going in who has undergone gender reassignment, or is going through the process of transitioning, maybe presence in a different gender to the sex they were born into, then maybe those questions are appropriate. but we have to take things on a case by case basis. apply some common, sense and in terms of the more general debate about trans rights, inclusion, the tension exist between sex based rights and gender identity which racing play out on our television screens that programs like yours. let's just have a bit more calm and, common sense, decency, and this debate and i must say, speaking for myself, i'm currently pulling my hair out some of the gotcha questions on tv programs and radio