so the way i look at it is your loss. i don't intend to spend all of my life proving to white people that i'm okay. >> don't prove it. i think you got to educate them. >> no, we don't. >> well, what i'm saying is nothing wrong with having a conversation. >> last night i was at this dinner. there was this conversation about slavery being the source of our racial problems. the topic of white privilege came up a lot, the idea of white people have advantages in this country. yeah, advantages, or you could flip it around and say black people have disadvantages in this country simply because of skin tone. >> i feel like it kind of goes both ways. sometimes white people have a disadvantage. i had a friend a couple of years