together. when mike's family gather together to mourn the death of mike's father, any hope the family had left for mike's return, evaporated. >> that deafening was probably the final straw where we were all on board that my brother would death we have shown up for his own father's funeral. >> but ellen and her children did show up. they no longer kept in touch with mike side of the family, but they'd seen the death announcement in the newspaper and came to pay their respects. >> we weren't expecting them, so it was a little strange. it caught us off-guard. once again, we're in a state of mourning, we don't want to create any kind of issues, we certainly we're going to have them escorted out. >> after all, mike's deceased father was the grandfather to elizabeth and step grandfather to alan son, michael. look >> we let them come up to the casket, you know, have their bereavement time, and then, all of a sudden, we notice that michael was just hysterical. he was crying uncontrollably.