but he's managing and doing well. - gotcha. - i can't get him to go to counseling though. - i was just gonna ask. - yeah, i've sent him once. - [doctor] (indistinct) has excellent options. - i've sent him once and he came back with pamphlets for me instead of a counseling session for him. yeah, but i'm working on it. (soft music) - we got a switch upgrade at the same time as this for c1secure and c1.web. i do it project management for the government. i wish there was a way for me to be paid what i'm being paid right now and just stay home. i'm not ready financially to be able to take over for this. everything was structured where basically kate was the primary breadwinner and i was secondary. we have rocking chairs because