See him, i want everyone to remember him as the lively person that he was. i knew then that it could not have been good. >> and when i sat down with kay, he told a story, filled with love and courage on that awful night. >> you are surrounded by evil. my insides were shaking. i was only thinking about patrick. >> that was the theme of the story that kay told me. how her five-year-old son patrick, was foremost on her and her husband's minds. that is why kay said she became especially panicked, when she and joe were forced to go to the back, buy them the man with the gun. >> so we said, we can't...