Saying what if we never have children all of that was on the table and it created a deepe connection with my husband because it was an opportunit for honesty. and we laid the groundwork for later the real serious har work of partnering we were on a ski trip in utah. and i thought i was pregnant so i bought a pregnancy test got up early, still kind o like twilight outside. and went to the bathroom and took the test, and sat there all by myself. and two blue lines climb back in bed, tapped hi on the shoulder, showed him th two blue lines he flipped out, i flipped out, we are crying. it was a bea...