>> a cynic would say, it doesn't matter what you call it, sex-positive, feminist-friendly porn, it's still porn, and porn is exploitive. >> that is because pornography, like any other industry, is just a mirror of society. so if we have a sexist society, we're going to have a sexist pornography. on the internet you find very violent, very extreme things. >> boys are thinking, whoa, that's the benchmark now. >> exactly. the proper is people aren't getting a proper sexual education. if parents would talk with their children openly and tell them, look what you see here is two people doing this sexual practice, it's a film, it's not reality. the same way that you tell your child, superman doesn't really fly, so you cannot jump out of the window and fly, it's a film, it's not reality. if we would have an open dialogue on sex, that wouldn't be a problem. >> do i sound like a prude when i'm asking you these questions? >> no, not at all. >> you're on your own.