mother of three children. thank you for your commitment, your service and sacrifice to this country and for your husband's. let me begin with you, your husband is buried at arlington. you went yesterday with your three little kids. we have some photos to pull up here and so people can see your family. what do you want people to remember about your husband today? >> just want them to remember, actually, all of the people that have died and sacrificed for our country. it is not just about the pool openings or barbecues, just taking a moment to just think about who has, you know, given the ultimate sacrifice. for us, we like to go and we'll -- our game we played as a family, and eat oreos, their dad's favorite treat. so we try to make it fun and the kids look forward to it and we go every year and this year we bumped into another family that we see every memorial day, that's kind of special.