schreiber, just said if a woman. does not have certainty about her child and you can come back at any point in time and ask for legal rights to the child, why would any woman theny a sperm donor in the first place? testimony is still going on right now in sacramento. >> shepard: let's bring in family law attorney, monica lindstrom. it's not as if this woman went out to a sperm donor and got somebody at random or somebody she didn't know. this is her boyfriend. and this guy was acting as father. maybe they didn't have the paperwork there but they had this child together, though through artificial inseptember nation now they break up and it's not as if we're talking about guy who has been in legal trouble or moral problems. seems like a guy who might be a pretty good father and she is denying that child the opportunity to have a father. that seems a little wrong. >> itself really does because when you look at the factual