say they are the face of our party. we have a diverse party, lots of points of view and i think that's fine. neil: you've been known as a fellow who tries to work with the other side even the sides within your own party but that almost seems to be a cliche today. i don't mean to minimize or criticize you, sir but i'm remindsed of the grief that joe biden got for simply saying that the vice president of the united states is a decent guy and he had to dial that back. do you worry about the tone getting worse even within your own party? >> i worry about it no matter where it comes from if it comes from folks within my party i'm certainly willing to talk to them and call them on it, and when it comes from the president or somebody else, i think we have to do the same. i think, neil one of the things that gets confused is that we can have really fundamental differences, policy differences, and we can have really spirited arguments but i think where our country is getting off the rails is the tone and the language