because they are passengers in a car -- >> it is illegal -- >> question, how old are your children? how do you negotiate having this conversation with them when they say, i don't know any of my friends who have died from complications with marijuana. but i do know that so and so dad died of alcoholism or smoking cigarettes or prescription drugs. and the -- how do you explain to them what the difference -- >> because i don't make -- >> i'm just literally asking -- >> i'm saying, two wrongs don't make a right. you say alcohol is bad. i agree with you. >> it's not bad -- >> marijuana is not as bad as them. let's legalize marijuana. that doesn't follow logic to me. >> i think it's difficult to have conversations with these hard lines. alcohol is not bad. it is bad to people who are