appears in the city hall in the commission chambers and the media focus just completely changed. it was all about steve talking. >> the obligation of city manager is to demonstrate i can continue to do the job. the fact my gender is shifting doesn't impact my knowledge, skills and abilities. >> when you went to the simpleny, places like that, what did you wear? >> just normal stuff that any other woman would wear. typically something, like a black evening gown. >> he seemed to enjoy the spotlight. >> i'm watching this man who was very shy about getting in front of the camera almost relishing the limelight. it was a new side of steve i hadn't seen. i thought he was revealing a little bit too much at that time. >> that press conference was devastating. the information i gave was way too much, way too detailed. >> this is probably a wife's worst nightmare, without a doubt. at the news conference i told