that the fact my gender is shifting doesn't impact my knowledge, skills and abilities. >> we when you went to the symphony, places like that, what did you wear? >> just normal stuff that any other woman would wear. typically something like a black evening gown. >> he seemed to enjoy the spotlight. >> and i'm watching this man who was very shy about getting in front of the camera almost relishing the limelight. it was a new side of steve that i hadn't seen. and i thought he was revealing a little bit too much at that time. >> that press conference was devastating. the information i gave was way too much, way too detailed. >> this is probably a wife's worst nightmare, without a doubt. >> at the news conference i told the world that i was hoping that travis was not watching. he was at home, and when donna got home we all got together in our living room. it was not an easy conversation. >> my dad said that he had