but at the butler -- >> that's amazing. it's like they don't have the national organization for women over there or something? >> butler cafe, they say hello princess. and you are treated as a cinderel cinderella. and there's a new twist on the butler cafe where you have butlers who speak english, they may be danish or canadian or british, but women go there to practice their english and it appeals to women who love animation who are considered the geeks. so they go into these cafes and they're treated like princesses. >> do we have a a corollary unid states? >> japanese seem hope to the whole idea of fantasy and they're righted very respectfully. >> are they more sexually open