>> gregg: jeremiah was an irresistible person and had many affairs with people over the course of his life. >> ruth: i just remember thinking, "he is the coolest guy i've ever seen," and then looking around and realizing that virtually everyone in that room, male or female, wanted to sleep with him. you know what he was like? it's like everybody else in the room was gray and he was glowing red. i mean, he was just, just, uh, so juicy and sexy and intriguing. >> clark: it was the early '70s and we were a little bit tipsy and a little bit high, you know what i mean? everybody's really cheery. and the restaurant at chez panisse was a very sexy place. i mean, people were flirting across a crowded prep table. >> ruth: a great line is just