>> and so i enjoyed it and i don't remember if it is a she or he. >> it is your wife and you don't remember if it is a he or she, there is something that i'm not computing here. would she be able to break a spoon on your behind? >> every day. >> every day. i need to talk to her. >> this is me and my husband. >> and you are monty's wife? >> yes. i am a switch, so i have gone through different phases where you feel submissive, you feel dominant. >> what if you and monty are feeling dominant at the same time? >> then we go out the play with other people. >> do you have a happy marriage? >> i have a very happy marriage. >> if there is one most important thing to me in regard to kink, it is how we deal with consent. look at marriage. under indian law the husband, even if he forces himself upon the wife, cannot be charged with rape. marital rape is not illegal in india. however, the kink scene is