child every other weekend and one day a week. what happens in many cases is they become alienated from their children. again, there is bad blood between the mother and the father and the kids don't really understand why dad isn't around that much. it can have a pretty devastating impact on a father and this episode is really exploring how it affects the children too when this happens when they don't have access or nearly enough access to one of the parents. >> the hard ship for the parents and the kids. it ranges depending on the age of the kids and their level of understanding or lack there of. >> that's right. i talked to a number of father who is said that their children stopped talking to them because they don't understand why they