1990, being with the family. it wasn't the typical bush family, open the stockings and, you know, have fun and put on skits and that kind of thing. >> bush attends service with his own family but he can't concentrate. >> the weight of this decision to mobilize troops all the way to the middle east to help liberate kuwait was weighing very heavily on dad. he wrote us a note at the time which of course i've read that note many times since then, talking about the decision to put men and women in harm's way. >> dear jorge, jeb, neil and darrow -- george -- we have tried hard for peace. i guess what i want you to know as a father is this. every human life is precious.