>> the all right. metropolitan, pay attention. what define as man's role in this world. next guest says it's all about the process of stepping out of comfort zone. new book details unexpected gift from his father. 12 gauge shotgun. joining us is the author of now we shall do manly things, good morning. >> good morning. >> so a shotgun was the thing that got you to realize, wait a minute, maybe i'm not a man or i need to become more of one? >> you know, i was actually having my third child, my daughter made me feel it right about the time we brought her home, my dad called me into his workshop and said i want to give you something. i was 33 years old and receiving my first gun. it was a surreal experience. but it got me thinking that that was very important moment