what's the divorce rate? it's fleeting. these are things that can be taken away from us. success is an inner peace. success is a maximizing of our peacefulness is based on kindness. >> you can do that your whole life. we had these graphics up earlier. i have a little theoretical formula i want to run past you. i feel like there's a displacement or a misplacement of money being attached to happiness. that money equals happiness. which it has been proven 50 ways that after $75,000, there's absolutely, positively no -- really, nothing -- so what does happiness equal? happiness has been widely attached to a human being's about to realize their potential and friends. that graphic is wrong. and that money equals opportunity. so that the opportunity -- that money is -- because it gives you the opportunity -- >> well, freedom.