>> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against what you told me just a few moments ago. if you're going to be honest and mentoring why not say, look, i'm a guy, i'm 61. i had a real tough time dealing with being gay years ago. let me help you to develop. to be a good guy. you didn't say that. what you said was "i'm in my 40s, i have a different name, and i want to meet you." >> and you're probably right. but also -- >> i'm not probably right. i am right. >> i'm still extremely nervous and the only reason i'm extremely nervous is because i have no idea who you are. >> you don't have any idea who i am? >> no. >> would you like to know? >> yes. >> i'm chris hansen with "dateline nbc" and we're doing a story on adults who meet teens on the internet. and if there's anything else you would like to say to me about