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you'd absolutely love it." "i'm in my 40s but guarantee that i'm not some old guy wanting to perv a young boy. i just enjoy being with younger ones and they seem to enjoy me. so there's nothing to worry about as far as i'm concerned as long as you're okay with it." well, the reality is you are older. >> mm-hmm. >> and what's going on here seems pretty pervy, doesn't it? >> it does. >> a lot of these guys lie about their age and when i confront them with it, that's typically when they start admitting the other things that they were intent about doing. you were being open and honest about who you were and what you were. >> i think so. >> how come you said your name was john and that you were in your 40s when you're really tom and 61 years old? >> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against
what you told me just a few moments ago. if you're going to be honest and mentoring why not say, look, i'm a guy, i'm 61. i had a real tough time dealing with being gay years ago. let me help you to develop. to be a good guy. you didn't say that. what you said was "i'm in my 40s, i have a different name, and i want to meet you." >> and you're probably right. but also -- >> i'm not probably right. i am right. >> i'm still extremely nervous and the only reason i'm extremely nervous is because i have no idea who you are. >> you don't have any idea who i am? >> no. >> would you like to know? >> yes. >> i'm chris hansen with "dateline nbc" and we're doing a story on adults who meet teens on the internet. and if there's anything else you would like to say to me about why you're here today, i would like to hear it. if not, clearly you're free to walk out that door.
that they were intent about doing. you were being open and honest about who you were and what you were. >> i think so. >> how come you said your name was john and that you were in your 40s when you're really tom and 61 years old? >> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against what you told me just a few moments ago. if you're going to be honest and so mentoring, why not say, look, i'm a guy. i'm 61. i had a real tough time dealing with being gay years ago. let me help you to develop. to be a good guy. you didn't say that. what you said was "i'm in my 40s, i have a different name, and i want to meet you." >> and you're probably right. but also -- >> i'm not probably right. i am right. >> i'm still extremely nervous and the only reason i'm
>> i think so. >> how come you said your name was john and that you were in your 40s when you're really tom and 61 years old? >> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against what you told me just a few moments ago. if you're going to be honest and mentoring why not say, look, i'm a guy, i'm 61. i had a real tough time dealing with being gay years ago. let me help you to develop. to be a good guy. you didn't say that. what you said was "i'm in my 40s, i have a different name, and i want to meet you." >> and you're probably right. but also -- >> i'm not probably right. i am right. >> i'm still extremely nervous and the only reason i'm extremely nervous is because i have no idea who you are. >> you don't have any idea who i am? >> no.
man. " >> okay. >> do you recall that? >> i believe so. >> you believe so? i have the whole transcript here. >> you do? >> yeah. yep "and from what most say it's the best they've had." the real compliment is when they keep coming back for more. you'd absolutely love it." "i'm in my 40s but guarantee that i'm not some old guy wanting to perv a young boy. i just enjoy being with younger ones and they seem to enjoy me. so there's nothing to worry about as far as i'm concerned as long as you're okay with it." well, the reality is you are older. >> mm-hmm. >> and what's going on here seems pretty pervy, doesn't it? >> it does. >> a lot of these guys lie about their age and when i confront them with it, that's typically when they start admitting the other things that they were intent about doing. you were being open and honest about who you were and what you were.
yep "and from what most say it's the best they've had." the real compliment is when they keep coming back for more. you'd absolutely love it." "i'm in my 40s but guarantee that i'm not some old guy wanting to perv a young boy. i just enjoy being with younger ones and they seem to enjoy me. so there's nothing to worry about as far as i'm concerned as long as you're okay with it." well, the reality is you are older. >> mm-hmm. >> and what's going on here seems pretty pervy, doesn't it? >> it does. >> a lot of these guys lie about their age and when i confront them with it, that's typically when they start admitting the other things that they were intent about doing. you were being open and honest about who you were and what you were. >> i think so. >> how come you said your name was john and that you were in your 40s when you're really tom and 61 years old?
>> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against what you told me just a few moments ago. if you're going to be honest and mentoring why not say, look, i'm a guy, i'm 61. i had a real tough time dealing with being gay years ago. let me help you to develop. to be a good guy. you didn't say that. what you said was "i'm in my 40s, i have a different name, and i want to meet you." >> and you're probably right. but also -- >> i'm not probably right. i am right. >> i'm still extremely nervous and the only reason i'm extremely nervous is because i have no idea who you are. >> you don't have any idea who i am? >> no. >> would you like to know? >> yes. >> i'm chris hansen with "dateline nbc" and we're doing a story on adults who meet teens on the internet. and if there's anything else you would like to say to me about
plan." >> okay. >> do you recall that? >> i believe so. >> you believe so? i have the whole transcript here. >> you do? >> yeah. yep "and from what most say it's the best they've had." the real compliment is when they keep coming back for more. you'd absolutely love it." "i'm in my 40s but guarantee that i'm not some old guy wanting to perv a young boy. i just enjoy being with younger ones and they seem to enjoy me. so there's nothing to worry about as far as i'm concerned as long as you're okay with it." well, the reality is you are older. >> mm-hmm. >> and what's going on here seems pretty pervy, doesn't it? >> it does. >> a lot of these guys lie about their age and when i confront them with it, that's typically
when they start admitting the other things that they were intent about doing. you were being open and honest about who you were and what you were. >> i think so. >> how come you said your name was john and that you were in your 40s when you're really tom and 61 years old? >> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against what you told me just a few moments ago. if you're going to be honest and mentoring why not say, look, i'm a guy, i'm 61. i had a real tough time dealing with being gay years ago. let me help you to develop. to be a good guy. you didn't say that. what you said was "i'm in my 40s, i have a different name, and i want to meet you." >> and you're probably right.
the real compliment is when they keep coming back for more. you'd absolutely love it." "i'm in my 40s but guarantee that i'm not some old guy wanting to perv a young boy. i just enjoy being with younger ones and they seem to enjoy me. so there's nothing to worry about as far as i'm concerned as long as you're okay with it." well, the reality is you are older. >> mm-hmm. >> and what's going on here seems pretty pervy, doesn't it? >> it does. >> a lot of these guys lie about their age. and when i confront them with that, that's typically when they start admitting the other things that they were intent about doing. so you were just being open and honest about who you were and what you were. >> i think so. >> how come you said your name was john and that you were in your 40s when you're really tom and 61 years old? >> many people when you're on the internet won't talk to anybody if they're in their 50s. >> yeah, but that runs against what you told me just a few moments ago.