illustrate the developmental, emotional and psychological toll that over parenting can take on children. she gives parents some constructive tips for stepping back and allowing the next generation of leaders to become fully formed adults. joining the table now is former stanford university and author of "how to raise an adult" julie haynes. julie, thinking about this in the context of in the '80s and early '90s everyone was afraid of crime and signing on to the crime bill parents were also flipping out and no longer allowing kids to walk to school to play alone, and it has real consequences 20 and 30 years later. >> it does. what's happened parents are involved in overprotecting their kids from a mythological sense there are strangers on every corner waiting to abduct them constructing play through a play date applauding kids at every turn, for showing up instead of really accomplish something. i think 20 30 years later when kids have been raised that way it's not a surprised they're till looking for parents'