Jennifer Lopez 'Has Feelings' For Ben Affleck, Friendship Moving In 'Romantic Direction': Report KEY POINTS Jennifer Lopez "has feelings" for Ben Affleck and "is really loving Ben’s friendship," a report says The pop diva is "taking it slowly" with Affleck and remains focused on her kids and career, the report adds This came after the two were spotted in Big Sky, Montana, together Things seem to be heating up between Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck just weeks after her split from ex Alex Rodriguez, a report says. "Bennifer" was one of the most iconic couples of the early 2000s, and after reports surfaced that Lopez and Affleck have been hanging out recently, fans have been hoping that they would get back together. Now, an unnamed insider told Us Weekly that though Lopez is not in a rush to take their friendship to the next level, she "has feelings" for Affleck.