Minnesota (again!): Nursing Home Aide Arrested on Charges He Raped Dementia Patient I don’t know if you have been seeing the stories about how we need more refugees and immigrants so that they can become our caregivers as we age, but I have. Those warm and fuzzy stories are everywhere, and frankly it gives me the creeps because stories like this one are everywhere too! (I have a bunch of news items I’ve tagged Maybe there should be laws in each state that prohibit men from caring for women in nursing homes. From Son catches Minnesota senior home worker sexually assaulting 83-year-old mom on webcam: reports