Grisham and Mati Gralinski, a friend and travel buddy, on one of their adventures. In early December, UK students celebrated the end of the semester and headed home for the holidays. But for the friends and family of Madilyn Taylor Grisham, grief has replaced the season's typical joy following Grisham's death in a Lexington shooting on Dec. 1. Grisham, 20, was one of three victims found on the scene when police arrived in response to a 911 call. Following her death, friends and acquaintances left comments on a GoFundMe dedicated to funeral expenses, recalling how they met Grisham and sending prayers to the family.