and it's much more difficultl for that girl or young person to put those barriers up. you have people wanting you to do it, and then you have other people telling you that it is wrong and gross to do it. so you're torn. it's really important that young people are given the opportunity to understand what is healthy sexual development and what is harmful sexual development, that they have an understanding of consent and when they can say no. you might have done what you did and you might regret it, _ and you cannot tell someone because they willjudge you. | they willjudge you for what you did. they think it is normal now and it isn't. - the answer is not to stop children from accessing the internet, because i don't thing that would take away the harm. the answer is to make sure these sites think about how users use their websites, how they sign up, what age they are.