no one is saying that. what we are saying is you can't use hate speech that would prompt - a gender—related crime, a sex—related crime, - or a race—related crime. there has been a massive, much—needed shift in- ithe conversation around gender, l around men's attitudes to women, around consent, blah blah blah. the sort of ironic, loud humour of "yeah, she's up for it," - iwhich at the time i'm pretty sure| was delivered with irony by 99.9% of the people, but now, - irony or not, not appropriate. a poll suggests in normal life people are stopping themselves from saying what they really think on certain subjects for fear of being judged. 57% of those asked said they self—censor on topics including immigration and transgender rights, particularly if their opinions are seen as less politically correct. perhaps it is obvious that they don't speak openly with people they have just met. nearly half say they don't. but 40% keep views quiet at work and nearly a third don't tell friends their real views on these subjects either. i'm not worried about being judged. i would just far rather not say something because i don't think it's right.