kinds of backgrounds that have to work together. this family hasn't really had to be in a cosmo poll tin multi thinking world and now they are. >> thank you. >> thank you. there is more happening tonight, next, what some see as president obama's terrible, horrible, no bad very bad year, he doesn't see it that way. we have a reality check. also, a child grows up fatherless, a mother loses the love of her life and somehow forgives the people responsible for her heartache. the conversation with the remarkable anita smith ahead on "360." how are things with the new guy? all we do is go out to dinner. that's it? i mean, he picks up the tab every time, which is great...what? he's using you. he probably has a citi thankyou card and gets 2x the points at restaurants.