it's -- i don't even think he can register what happened yet. it's just too much. no words for it. he was just -- he lived. and for that he feels guilty. >> well, yes, there is a huge amount of survivor's guilt here, i think anyone would feel that way. i can tell you that matthew will not be returning to the college. he's going to be taking some time off. his mother says thiscy ayoung man who is known for his smile, for his outgoing personality. and it will take some time for that part of himself to come back. you would think that when the president comes to town on friday that he will want to meet with matthew and his mother. but at this point, the white house is not released details surrounding his visit. alisyn and company, we'llen is it back to you. >> thanks so much. oh, my gosh -- >> how do you counsel someone to deal with that survivor's guilt? that's a weighty thing. >> how does he process this? and the randomness of the