the malaysian government at that time did not give the right answers. there were a lot of misunderstandings and messages saying people should not have hope of finding their beloved ones so it was really touching what i experienced in malaysia. and now we are 15 months after the crash or what we suppose it was a crash. i know there are a lot of families that still believe that maybe this plane was not hit in the water or maybe on the ground but i understand the suffering and now i see that the wounds are all open again. i felt the same at that time six years ago. >> the wounds are all open again, maarten. in your situation with your sister the biggest difference between the air france flight and this one, it was seven days after it went down into the